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Fear of Flying: Anxiety or Phobia?

by Dan Regan | Dec 31, 2025 | Phobias and Fears

Fear of Flying: Anxiety or Phobia?

I work with many people in Ely and Newmarket who struggle with a fear of flying. The anxiety and fear can stop you flying altogether, or make it a thoroughly uncomfortable experience. So is your fear of flying an anxiety or a phobia? And how can you tackle it so that you can fly calmly and confidently. How can you overcome your fear of flying so you can look forward to going to the places you want to go?

For many people, flying isn’t just uncomfortable, it’s deeply distressing. The thought of getting on a plane can trigger anxiety days or even weeks in advance, and for some, it leads to avoiding travel altogether.

If you are able to tackle the initial barrier of buying a ticket, your anxiety and panic starts to increase. You imagine all the worst case scenarios, from the plane going down to having a panic attack and feeling trapped. The closer flying gets, the more you feel restless and get that sinking feeling. The airport can feel hot and uncomfortable. And being on the plane can lead to panic, hyper alertness and wave after wave of fear. You can arrive at your destination feeling drained and exhausted from all the anxious thoughts and feelings you’ve been trying to deal with.

If you struggle with a fear of flying, you may wonder whether what you’re experiencing is anxiety or a phobia. Understanding the difference is an important first step toward feeling calmer and more in control. And, as my many clients in Ely and Newmarket have gone on to discover, you an feel more calm and in control before and during flying.

All or Nothing Thinking Around Food

by Dan Regan | Dec 30, 2025 | Weight Loss

All or Nothing Thinking Around Food

All-or-nothing thinking around food is a common pattern where eating choices are viewed as either “good” or “bad”, often leading to guilt, restriction, or giving up altogether after small slips.

This way of thinking often sounds like:

“I’ve ruined today, so I may as well eat whatever I want.”
“I’ll start again properly on Monday.”
“If I can’t do this perfectly, there’s no point.”

All-or-nothing thinking isn’t a lack of willpower. It’s usually a response to pressure, stress or anxiety, especially after periods like Christmas, holidays, or busy life changes.

When food becomes tied to strict rules, black and white thinking, self-criticism or control, even small deviations can feel like failure. That emotional reaction often drives overeating, comfort eating, or abandoning healthy intentions altogether.

Weight Loss After Christmas

by Dan Regan | Dec 28, 2025 | Weight Loss

Hypnotherapy for Weight Loss: Getting Back on Track After Christmas

If you are struggling to get back on track with healthy eating after Christmas, then hypnotherapy for weight loss can help you. You can take back control over your eating habits, end emotional eating and overeating and enjoy eating the right amount for you.

Christmas can be a difficult time when it comes to food, routines and self-control. For many people, the structure they normally rely on disappears, emotions run higher, and eating is more about comfort than hunger. All your previous good efforts went out the window and the pounds piled on. You may well have ended up feeling lethargic and bloated. Now you are struggling to reign it all back in and get back on track after Christmas.

If you’re now feeling frustrated, guilty or “behind” with your weight goals, then it’s time to take back control over your eating habits. Rather than snacking, eating it because it is there or eating more than you need, you can start eating healthily and eating the right amount. You can get your mindset in place to move forward towards the size, shape and weight that you desire.

What helps weight loss now is not more willpower or another restrictive diet. You need a calm, effective and supportive approach that changes your relationship with food and become your new habitual lifestyle.

Hypnotherapy for weight loss can help you break unhealthy patterns so that you move forward towards the size, shape and weight that you desire. Rather than weight loss after Christmas feeling hard, you take back control over your eating thoughts, feelings and habits.

Physical Anxiety Symptoms

by Dan Regan | Dec 27, 2025 | Anxiety Stress and Panic Attacks

Physical Anxiety Symptoms: Why Anxiety Feels So Physical

Anxiety fills your mind with racing thoughts of the worst happening. You get caught in a loop of worrying thoughts, fear and overthinking. Alongside this, you experience all the unpleasant, frightening and uncomfortable physical anxiety symptoms. For some people, the most distressing part of anxiety is what they feel in their body.

It doesn’t matter whether your anxiety is about something specific or more general. Your heart races, your chest tightens and you can experience dizziness, nausea and a wave of fear. When those bodily sensations and feelings strike and hit you, it can feel debilitating and crushing.

These symptoms can be frightening and feel overwhelming. They can appear suddenly or without any obvious cause. The bodily feelings can become more and more frequent. You start to focus upon them more and more. Even when you feel fine, you worry about feeling that bad again. You may start limiting what you do and avoiding things. You just want to retreat to somewhere where you feel more safe.

It’s very common for people to start worrying that something is physically wrong with them. The medical tests all come back normal but your anxiety about your health continues.

This article will help you to understand why anxiety causes physical symptoms and how you can start feeling better.

Hypnotherapy For Habits: Why Hypnotherapy Works Better Than Willpower

by Dan Regan | Dec 27, 2025 | Hypnotherapy Hypnosis and NLP

Hypnotherapy For Habits: Why Hypnotherapy Works Better Than Willpower

As January begins, you may feel motivated to make changes. It could be healthier habits, better routines or leaving behind some old behaviours. Yet even with the best intentions, these changes can feel difficult to sustain. That’s where hypnotherapy for habits can help you.

After the excess of Christmas, and with some extra time on your hands over the holidays, you may well decide that it is time to do things differently. You may start eating healthier, drinking less or exercising more. You are motivated and focused and things may start well. Then normal routines and demands kick back in and it feels harder to commit to change.

And some people only get as far as thinking they should change their habits and never even get started.

Changing habits can feel hard if you rely on willpower alone. You try to push along and you put effort in, only to end up back where you started after a while. Your mind works on pattern and repetition. In similar situations you are designed to do things in the same way as before. By simply relying on good intentions and forcing a change in behaviours you are not addressing how your mind works. After a while your focus and willpower get depleted and the same old patterns resurface. It feels frustrating and defeating.

I work with many people in Ely, Newmarket and Online who really want to change habits but struggle to maintain any momentum.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying that you know what you should do, but you just can’t stick to it, then you are not alone. This is where hypnotherapy for habits can help.

Returning to Work Anxiety

by Dan Regan | Dec 26, 2025 | Anxiety Stress and Panic Attacks

Returning To Work Anxiety: How To Ease Post Holiday Stress

Returning to work after the holidays can trigger anxiety.

During the festive break you may have found time to relax, rest, see people and do fun things. If you’ve had time off you’ll have fallen into new patterns and routines, perhaps staying up later and sleeping in. There may have been changes to what you eat, drink and how you have used your time.

Now you face the prospect of returning to the work routine. That likely means getting up earlier and dealing with the rush. You’ll have deadlines, demands and people to deal with. It may feel overwhelming just to think about it after your break from it all. The decorations and lights are taken down, the weather is dark and cold, and the next real break is not for quite some time.

Your anxiety about returning to work may mean you notice tension, restlessness, overthinking and a sense of overwhelm as you face emails, tasks and deadlines. Post holiday anxiety and stress affects countless people each year.

New Year Anxiety

by Dan Regan | Dec 26, 2025 | Anxiety Stress and Panic Attacks

New Year Anxiety: How To Prepare Yourself Mentally for January

Christmas is over and January approaches. It’s the time when New Year anxiety starts to rise.

The activities, celebrations, resting and festivities are all over and done for another year. And now comes the dread and worry as January arrives. Your normal routine and rushing around is about to kick back in. Even worse, the weather is rubbish and the nights are dark.

Many people start to notice their anxiety increasing between 27 December and early January.

You might have a sense of dread about returning to work or getting back into the school run. This can come with racing thoughts about demands, routines and responsibilities. There will be people, tasks and things that you’ve enjoyed being away from and that you now need to face. You might also feel under pressure to make healthy changes or improve yourself.

You might notice that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, or an increasing restlessness and irritability. It’s like a mental countdown where all these things get closer and closer, robbing you of peace and enjoyment right now. It can affect your sleep and lead to low motivation mixed with anxiety.

These thoughts and feelings are often called New Year anxiety or January anxiety. You dread things, think the worst and feel agitated. However, it is possible to successfully tackle these negative thoughts and feelings and to enter January feel calm, confident and positive.

Social Anxiety vs Low Confidence

by Dan Regan | Dec 23, 2025 | Anxiety Stress and Panic Attacks

Social Anxiety vs Low Confidence

In this article I’m covering the difference between social anxiety and low confidence and how hypnotherapy in Ely and Newmarket can help you.

Feeling uncomfortable in social situations is very common. Some people describe it as anxiety, others as low confidence — and many aren’t sure which applies to them.

I’ve covered in previous articles about how I used to struggle with social anxiety and low self esteem. When I first became aware of how I would dread and avoid certain social situations, I assumed it was just low confidence. There was all the self doubt, overthinking and worry about what others were thinking. And there was all the thinking the worst, negative inner commentary and ruminating. It was exhausting and limiting.

It was a constant theme in my life for years until hypnotherapy helped me to overcome my social anxiety and move forward with confidence. Knowing how bad it feels is why I love helping others to end that fear of being judged. It’s life changing and allows you to move forward feeling lighter and more free.

Wondering “Is this social anxiety, or am I just not very confident?” is very common. The two experiences often overlap, but they aren’t always the same thing. Understanding the difference can make it much easier to find the right kind of support (spoiler: hypnotherapy can help you with both).

What to Expect in Your First Hypnotherapy Session

by Dan Regan | Dec 22, 2025 | Hypnotherapy Hypnosis and NLP

What to Expect in Your First Hypnotherapy Session

In this post, I’ll walk you through what happens in your first hypnotherapy session so you feel prepared, calm and confident — from your free consultation to the hypnotherapy experience itself.

Starting hypnotherapy can feel like a big step, especially if you’re not sure what to expect. You may not have seen a therapist before but someone has recommended me or you’ve read through my reviews. Or perhaps you’ve had hours of therapy and you feel no better so coming to see me seems like your last hope.

Either way, you may feel curious, positive, sceptical or slightly nervous before your first session. This may be because it is all new to you or it may be influenced by myths and misunderstandings about hypnosis.

It’s why I always suggest starting with a free consultation. We can meet in person, talk through how I work and how I can help you, and I’ll answer any questions you have. Once you go ahead we have a shared understanding and you’ll have already met me and seen my office before your first hypnotherapy session.

If you’re considering hypnotherapy and wondering what actually happens in a session, this guide will help you feel more prepared, reassured, and confident about taking that next step.

Wishing You a Merry Christmas

by Dan Regan | Dec 21, 2025 | Hypnotherapy Hypnosis and NLP

Wishing You a Merry Christmas

Wishing you a Merry Christmas!

It’s that time of year again…already! I’ve still got a whole load of gift buying to do and the clock is ticking down quite quickly to Christmas Day! Thank goodness for the awesome local Ely shops and Amazon.

I feel like I’m less organised than last year but think I’m just about going to get everything done on time. Luckily my girls are now old enough to just tell me what they want and I just need to add a few little surprises. Then there’s just the dreaded wrapping it all up to go! At least I can watch my favourite version of A Christmas Carol while I’m fighting the sellotape again.

This year I took the opportunity to go out and help Santa on his annual journey around the streets of Ely. The Rotary Club organises the annual fundraiser as part of their work to raise funds for local charities. Santa is pulled around on his sleigh each night through different streets. I remember how excited my kids would get when they were little and Santa was coming. You can hear the Christmas music before he arrives and they would be sitting at the window looking out for the first glimpse. Then it was run downstairs, shoes on and out to see him. It was a delight to be on the other side and to see so many excited children on our rounds (and a few very excited adults too!).

And here is the man himself:

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