Would you like to feel happier more of the time?
We know that the more you focus on something, the more of it you notice and the more it becomes a part of your experience.
Just ask anyone with depression or who is unhappy or low and they’ll tell you how bad things are and how they can’t seem to imagine life ever getting any better in the future.
It seems to me that we often spend our days operating in some sort of reverse gear in our minds – instead of focusing on all the good things, we spend most of our time and thoughts engulfed in all the things that are going wrong or that we think will go wrong.
You only have to watch the news on TV or pick up a paper to engulf yourself in tales of disaster and gloom.
And it’s a useful little experiment to notice how many