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Low Confidence and Anxiety

Low Confidence and Anxiety

Low Confidence and Anxiety: Why They’re Often Linked

Low confidence and anxiety often go hand in hand. Many people notice that when anxiety becomes more persistent, their confidence gradually fades – even in situations that once felt manageable.

In the same way, if you struggle with low confidence, then it leads to worry, self-doubt, anxiety and dread. You worry about messing up, being found out, what others think and about whether you have the ability to do things. You may constantly criticise yourself and be harsh about what you do or what you feel you can’t do. This leads to feeling low and anxiety and so you avoid things and stay firmly within your comfort zone. You may find you take things personally and struggle when challenges arise or things go wrong.

Back when I used to struggle with anxiety and low confidence, there were some situations where I felt totally fine, comfortable and self-assured. Yet, there were other times where I was caught in a spiral of fear, doubt and worry. I would avoid things, escape from things and work hard to disguise how I really felt. I would try to orchestrate things to make them feel more manageable for me and would worry about expressing my opinion in case there was any backlash that could make me crumble.

Sometimes you may be able to hide how you feel from others. Yet the same cycle of negative thought and feelings repeat internally over and over. You get that feeling in the pit of your stomach, your mind races as you think the worst, and the anxiety and doubt increase.

People I work with in Ely often describe feeling less sure of themselves, more self-critical, or worried about how they come across to others. Over time, this can affect work, relationships and everyday decisions.

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Why Anxiety Can Return After Feeling Better

Why Anxiety Can Return After Feeling Better

Why Anxiety Can Return After Feeling Better | Anxiety Support in Ely

One of the most unsettling experiences is when anxiety returns after you had started feeling better. You start to feel better and think things are going to keep improving… and then anxiety seems to return.

Many people describe feeling confused or discouraged when this happens. Thoughts such as ‘I thought I was past this’ or ‘Does this mean nothing has really changed?’ are very common. You start to worry about your anxiety coming back and that you will feel as bad as you used to.

The thing to keep in mind is that you definitely have the capability to feel calm, confident and in control. Anxiety is where negative thoughts and feelings start, and then they grow from worry and repetition. You already know how to take back control and feel better. So it is very possible to nip any little bits of anxiety, the sort of thing that everyone gets now and again, in the bud so that it doesn’t take over.

In my work with anxiety clients in Ely and surrounding areas, this fear of anxiety returning often causes more distress than the symptoms themselves.

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Anxiety and Overthinking: Why the Mind Gets Stuck

Anxiety and Overthinking: Why the Mind Gets Stuck

Anxiety and Overthinking: Why the Mind Gets Stuck

Overthinking is one of the most common and frustrating features of anxiety. Your mind goes over the same worries again and again – replaying conversations, imagining worst-case scenarios or searching endlessly for certainty.

You think the worst and feel anxious about what you are imagining and focusing upon. Your mind starts to race and you spiral from one catastrophe to the next. The more anxious you feel, the more you dread and worry about what will happen and how you’ll cope.

Many people describe it as feeling unable to ‘switch off’, even when they know logically that nothing bad is happening right now. It’s like your mind can always find something for you to worry about. It can become so habitual that if you aren’t worrying about something then you worry that you should be.

In my work with anxiety clients in Ely, overthinking is often one of the anxiety symptoms people find most exhausting.

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Why Anxiety Often Feels So Physical | Anxiety Explained

Why Anxiety Often Feels So Physical | Anxiety Explained

Why Anxiety Often Feels So Physical

This article expands on questions I’m often asked by clients locally, particularly around why anxiety symptoms feel so physical even when medical tests come back clear.

Many people are surprised by just how physical anxiety can feel.

In my work as an anxiety specialist in Ely, one of the most common things clients tell me is that the physical sensations are often the most frightening part – sometimes even more distressing than the anxious thoughts themselves.

Symptoms such as a racing heart, chest tightness, dizziness, breathlessness, muscle tension or a churning stomach can feel intense and alarming. When these sensations come on suddenly or without a clear cause, it’s easy to worry that something is physically wrong.

This is something I recently spoke about in my regular column published by the Ely Standard, exploring why anxiety so often shows up in the body rather than just the mind.

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Can Hypnotherapy Help Calm Anxiety Quickly?

Can Hypnotherapy Help Calm Anxiety Quickly?

Can Hypnotherapy Help Calm Anxiety Quickly?

When anxiety feels overwhelming, one of the most common questions people ask is how quickly it can improve. If you’re feeling constantly on edge, dealing with panic symptoms, or stuck in cycles of worry, it’s natural to want relief as soon as possible.

Many people I work with here in Ely come to me asking how quickly anxiety can begin to feel more manageable.

Anxiety leads you to think the worst and you feel all the uncomfortable physical sensations. Anxiety can be unsettling and frightening. You aren’t sure what is happening or why you feel this way. You also worry about it lasting a long time or even if it will ever go away.

In my work as an anxiety hypnotherapist in Ely, I often meet people who feel exhausted from trying to manage anxiety on their own. Many are surprised to learn that anxiety can sometimes begin to settle sooner than they expect – particularly when the nervous system is supported in the right way.

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When Anxiety Feels Out of Control: How to Know What Really Helps

When Anxiety Feels Out of Control: How to Know What Really Helps

When Anxiety Feels Out of Control: How to Know What Really Helps

 

Sometimes anxiety can feel like it has taken over. It can show up as constant worrying thoughts, sudden panic, physical symptoms, avoidance, or a feeling that you’ve lost control of your own reactions.

In my anxiety therapy in Ely and Newmarket, people with anxiety and panic often tell me how they feel out of control. It can stop you doing things because there will be things outside of your control. And as well as external things, some people think they are going crazy because they can’t calm their own feelings and calm their own thinking.

Anxiety brings unpleasant physical symptoms such as feeling shaky, restless and tense. Your chest feels tight and your heart races.

You get that sense of dread before you do things and your mind races through all the worst cases. Your mind jumps from one imagined catastrophe to the next. Even when you feel okay, you still feel anxious because you know your anxiety is still lurking and could strike again at any time. You start to worry about feeling anxious.

Your confidence plummets, your sleep is broken and you feel fraught and exhausted.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone – and the most important thing is knowing that anxiety can be helped. The next step is understanding what tends to make the biggest difference.

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Driving Anxiety Hypnotherapy

Driving Anxiety Hypnotherapy

Driving Anxiety Hypnotherapy: Fear, Confidence and Feeling Back in Control

Driving anxiety can make even short or familiar journeys feel overwhelming. This article explains why driving anxiety develops, how it affects confidence, and how hypnotherapy can help you feel calmer and more in control behind the wheel.

Driving anxiety is one of the common issues that I help people with in Ely and Newmarket.

Like all types of anxiety, you get caught up in a self re-enforcing spiral. You feel anxious thinking about driving even when you aren’t in the car. Those anxious feelings increase the closer a journey gets and the thoughts of the worst happening race through your imagination. You may avoid all driving or going on certain roads or in particular situations.  If you do get in the car, your heart races, your chest feels tight and you worry about everything to do with what you are doing and what other drivers are doing.

The particular roads and situations that cause you anxiety can vary. In this area, it’s very common that people avoid the busy A14, especially the sections where there is no lay-by to pull into or no nearby junction to escape on if it were all to get too much. However, driving anxiety can equally apply to smaller roads, unfamiliar routes or anything that feels too far from home.

Sometimes driving anxiety arises because of something that previously happened when you were in the car. Or it can be that, in the solitude of the car with time to think, all the stress and anxiety from the rest of your life catches up with you. You feel anxious or have a panic attack and your mind associates the fear with where you are at that moment, in the car. Suddenly, even where driving was previously fine, being in the car triggers anxiety, tension and overwhelm.

However your driving anxiety started, and whatever the roads and situations, hypnotherapy can help you to start feeling more calm and confident behind the wheel again.

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Physical Anxiety Symptoms

Physical Anxiety Symptoms

Physical Anxiety Symptoms: Why Anxiety Feels So Physical

 

Anxiety fills your mind with racing thoughts of the worst happening. You get caught in a loop of worrying thoughts, fear and overthinking. Alongside this, you experience all the unpleasant, frightening and uncomfortable physical anxiety symptoms. For some people, the most distressing part of anxiety is what they feel in their body.

It doesn’t matter whether your anxiety is about something specific or more general. Your heart races, your chest tightens and you can experience dizziness, nausea and a wave of fear. When those bodily sensations and feelings strike and hit you, it can feel debilitating and crushing.

These symptoms can be frightening and feel overwhelming. They can appear suddenly or without any obvious cause. The bodily feelings can become more and more frequent. You start to focus upon them more and more. Even when you feel fine, you worry about feeling that bad again. You may start limiting what you do and avoiding things. You just want to retreat to somewhere where you feel more safe.

It’s very common for people to start worrying that something is physically wrong with them. The medical tests all come back normal but your anxiety about your health continues.

This article will help you to understand why anxiety causes physical symptoms and how you can start feeling better.

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Returning to Work Anxiety

Returning to Work Anxiety

Returning To Work Anxiety: How To Ease Post Holiday Stress

Returning to work after the holidays can trigger anxiety.

During the festive break you may have found time to relax, rest, see people and do fun things. If you’ve had time off you’ll have fallen into new patterns and routines, perhaps staying up later and sleeping in. There may have been changes to what you eat, drink and how you have used your time.

Now you face the prospect of returning to the work routine. That likely means getting up earlier and dealing with the rush. You’ll have deadlines, demands and people to deal with. It may feel overwhelming just to think about it after your break from it all. The decorations and lights are taken down, the weather is dark and cold, and the next real break is not for quite some time.

Your anxiety about returning to work may mean you notice tension, restlessness, overthinking and a sense of overwhelm as you face emails, tasks and deadlines. Post holiday anxiety and stress affects countless people each year.

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New Year Anxiety

New Year Anxiety

New Year Anxiety: How To Prepare Yourself Mentally for January

Christmas is over and January approaches. It’s the time when New Year anxiety starts to rise.

The activities, celebrations, resting and festivities are all over and done for another year. And now comes the dread and worry as January arrives. Your normal routine and rushing around is about to kick back in. Even worse, the weather is rubbish and the nights are dark.

Many people start to notice their anxiety increasing between 27 December and early January.

You might have a sense of dread about returning to work or getting back into the school run. This can come with racing thoughts about demands, routines and responsibilities. There will be people, tasks and things that you’ve enjoyed being away from and that you now need to face. You might also feel under pressure to make healthy changes or improve yourself.

You might notice that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach, or an increasing restlessness and irritability. It’s like a mental countdown where all these things get closer and closer, robbing you of peace and enjoyment right now. It can affect your sleep and lead to low motivation mixed with anxiety.

These thoughts and feelings are often called New Year anxiety or January anxiety. You dread things, think the worst and feel agitated. However, it is possible to successfully tackle these negative thoughts and feelings and to enter January feel calm, confident and positive.

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