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Why So Many People Feel Mentally Exhausted Right Now

Why So Many People Feel Mentally Exhausted Right Now

Why So Many People Feel Mentally Exhausted Right Now | Ely Standard Article

Why do so many people feel mentaly exhasuted right now?.

Following my recent article in the Ely Standard, I wanted to explore this topic in a little more depth because it’s something that comes up increasingly often in my work with anxiety, stress and overthinking..

Many people appear to be coping reasonably well from the outside while internally feeling mentally exhausted, emotionally overwhelmed or constantly ‘switched on’..

They may still be:.

– working
– socialising
– supporting family
– meeting responsibilities
– getting through everyday life.

Yet internally they may feel:.

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Many People Struggle Quietly With Anxiety

Many People Struggle Quietly With Anxiety

Many People Struggle Quietly With Anxiety | Mental Health Awareness Week

Mental Health Awareness Week is often a reminder that many people around us may be struggling far more than we realise.

One of the things I’ve noticed repeatedly in my work as an anxiety therapist in Ely is just how many people appear to be coping outwardly while internally feeling exhausted, overwhelmed or stuck in constant worry.

Often, the people struggling the most are the ones who appear outwardly calm, capable and functioning. From the outside, they may still be going to work, looking after family, socialising and getting through their daily routines.

Yet internally they may be dealing with:

overthinking
panic attacks
stress
racing thoughts
fear of judgement and failure
difficulty switching off
low motivation
concentration problems
loss of confidence.

It can feel like inner peace, joy and happiness have been switched off.

Often, people tell me they feel they ‘should’ be coping better, or that they have no reason to feel like they do, because their life may look fine to others.

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Overthinking and Anxiety

Overthinking and Anxiety

Overthinking and Anxiety: Why Your Mind Won’t Switch Off

Overthinking is something almost everyone experiences at times, but when anxiety is involved, it can feel constant, exhausting and difficult to escape.

You might find yourself replaying conversations long after they’ve finished, worrying about things that haven’t happened yet, or analysing situations over and over again without reaching a clear answer.

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

In my work as an anxiety therapist in Ely, overthinking is one of the most common challenges people describe. And although it can feel overwhelming, it is something that can be understood – and changed.

This article links with Episode 2 of the Dan Regan Hypnotherapy Podcast, brought to you in association with Spotted in Ely. This episode focuses specifically on why overthinking happens, why the mind gets stuck in worry loops, and how changing your response to anxious thoughts can help break the cycle.

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Recognition for Clinical Hypnotherapy & Anxiety Support Work in Ely

Recognition for Clinical Hypnotherapy & Anxiety Support Work in Ely

Recognition for Clinical Hypnotherapy & Anxiety Support Work in Ely

Over the years, one of the most rewarding parts of my work has been seeing people regain confidence, feel calmer again, and move forward after struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, stress or self-doubt.

Because of this, I was very pleased to recently receive recognition in the SME News Business Elite Awards 2026 as:

Best Clinical Hypnotherapy & Coaching Specialist 2026 (East of England)

While awards are never the reason for doing this work, it’s always encouraging to see specialist mental health and anxiety support recognised.

As an anxiety therapist and clinical hypnotherapist working in Ely and the surrounding Cambridgeshire area, my focus has always been on helping people feel safe, understood and supported while making meaningful changes in their lives.

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Why Anxiety Comes Back

Why Anxiety Comes Back

Why Anxiety Comes Back (Even When You Thought It Was Gone)

One of the most frustrating experiences with anxiety is when it feels like it’s gone – and then suddenly, it’s back again.

You’ve been through all the physical discomfort and mental anguish. Maybe the anxiety passed on its own, or you may have benefited from anxiety therapy.

You’ve started feeling better and more like yourself. And then your unwanted thoughts and feelings come back.

You might find yourself thinking:

“I thought I’d dealt with this”
“Why is this happening again?”
“Am I back to square one?”

It can feel discouraging, especially when things had been improving.

For example, you might have felt calmer for weeks or months, only to notice the same thoughts or feelings returning in a familiar situation.

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Why Do Some Thoughts Stick In Your Mind?

Why Do Some Thoughts Stick In Your Mind?

Why Do Some Thoughts Stick in Your Mind More Than Others?

Have you ever wondered why some thoughts get stuck in your head?

You have hundreds of thoughts every day. Most of these thoughts pass through your mind quickly.

They don’t bother you too much and you probably don’t even notice the majority of them.

But every so often, a thought appears that feels different.

It might feel:

more important
more uncomfortable
harder to ignore

And instead of passing, it seems to stay.

These are often thoughts that create an emotional response, such as anxiety, These thoughts can seem to get stuck in your head.

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OCD and Anxiety

OCD and Anxiety

OCD and Anxiety: Why Thoughts Can Feel So Real

OCD and anxiety can make your thoughts feel very really – and very difficult to ignore. Your thoughts scare you because of what you are imagining. That anxiety leads to more intrusive thoughts. You start to doubt what you’ve done or worry about what you could do.

You might find yourself having thoughts that feel completely out of character.

They may be:

intrusive
repetitive
difficult to ignore
upsetting or confusing

And often, the more you try to push them away, the stronger they seem to come back.

They may be about harming yourself or others. Your thoughts mess with your recollection of events and what may have happened. You worry why you are thinking such intrusive thoughts and what that means about you and what you are capable of. Your own thoughts scare you.

Sometimes it can lead you to do certain repetitive behaviours to bring some temporary relief. Other times it can all be about that ongoing cycle of intrusive thoughts that torment you inside your own mind.

OCD and anxiety can feel very real – and often quite frightening.

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Men’s Mental Health Support in Ely

Men’s Mental Health Support in Ely

Men’s Mental Health Support in Ely: How Walking and Talking Can Help

Many men I speak to tell me a similar story.

They’re dealing with anxiety, stress, or feeling overwhelmed – but they keep it to themselves.

Not because they want to, but because it can feel difficult to open up, or they’re unsure where to start.

For some, one-to-one support like hypnotherapy can be incredibly helpful. For others, a more informal first step – simply being around others who understand – can make a real difference.

That’s why I wanted to share a local resource here in Ely that I’ve recently connected with and that is actively helping many local mean to connect and improve their mental health.

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Introverts and Anxiety

Introverts and Anxiety

Introverts and Anxiety: When Socialising Feels Draining

Today I’m covering introverts and anxiety and writing about how socialising can feel draining.

If you’re an introvert and social situations feel draining, it’s usually not because you lack confidence, it’s because of how your mind processes stimulation, combined with patterns of anxiety and overthinking.

You might feel like social situations affect you differently to other people. It’s not that you can’t do them, you can. And you can enjoy social situations.

But they can feel draining, effortful, or mentally tiring in a way that’s hard to explain.

And as someone who is more of an introvert, you might:

need time to recover after socialising
feel more comfortable in smaller groups
find too much interaction overwhelming
feel ‘on’ rather than relaxed
feel like you need time to recharge afterwards

From the outside, it may look like calmness and confidence. But internally, it can feel like a lot of effort.

This is more common than many people realise, particularly for people who are naturally more thoughtful and inward focused.

If this sounds familiar

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How to Stop Overthinking in Social Situations

How to Stop Overthinking in Social Situations

How to Stop Overthinking in Social Situations (Without Forcing Yourself)

Do you have a habit of overthinking in social situations?

If you find yourself overthinking in social situations, it’s usually linked to patterns of anxiety, self-focus, and a natural desire to come across well – rather than a lack of social ability.

You’re physically present but the whole time you are mentally elsewhere. That little voice in your head just keeps on going. You might struggle to join in or find that things have moved on while you were thinking of what to say or how to say it. It’s like having an non stop running commentary criticising, analysing and overthinking every detail. It stops you relaxing and being yourself.

Around the people you feel most comfortable with you can relax and be yourself. You can be yourself and the words come easily.

Yet that overthinking in social situations creates a whole different, more anxious and awkward, experience. Many people struggle with overthinking in social situations, especially when they’re already feeling slightly self-conscious or under pressure.

You might notice it most in conversations.

You say something and then immediately start thinking:

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