Fear of Dogs in Children: A Recent Success Story

Fear of dogs is something many children experience at some point.

For some, it’s a mild discomfort. They can be in the vicinity of dogs but are wary and keep a distance.

For others, it can begin to affect day-to-day life, especially when it leads to avoiding places like parks, walks, or outdoor activities. Just the possibility that there may be a dog can create anxiety and fear. If a dog comes nearer it creates panic.

Recently, a parent got in touch about their daughter, who had developed a strong fear of dogs.

She had reached the point where she was refusing to go on walks or visit the park in case she might see one. Just the thought of a dog coming near could create worry.

After our sessions, things changed positively and dramatically.

Whilst this was help for a child and fer of dogs, I’ve helped many adults too who struggle with this fear.

 

What Fear of Dogs Can Feel Like

A strong fear of dogs in children is a common type of anxiety known as a specific phobia, where the fear feels intense, real, and difficult to control, even when there is no immediate danger.

When a fear becomes this strong, it’s not simply a case of ‘being scared’.

For a child, it can feel:

• overwhelming
• unpredictable
• difficult to control
• very real in the moment

Fear can develop quickly in children, sometimes after a specific experience, or simply through how the mind interprets a situation. Once avoidance begins, the fear can become stronger over time.

For some children, a fear of dogs can begin to affect everyday life. As a result, the avoidance can quickly feel like the safest option.

Children may begin avoiding some places altogether, such as parks, walks, or visiting friends, because of the possibility of seeing a dog.

There’s more about anxiety, worry and fear over on my anxiety hub.

 

How This Changed

Over a number of sessions, we worked on helping her feel more comfortable and in control around dogs.

At first, the focus was on:

• understanding what was happening
• reducing the intensity of the fear
• building confidence gradually

As the sessions progressed, her response began to change.

The approach is always gradual and tailored, helping the child feel more comfortable step by step rather than being pushed too quickly.

The thought of dogs became more calm. Then the possibility of seeing a dog became okay. Then seeing a well controlled dog was fine. Even stroking a friend’s dog became something that could be done calmly and confidently.

 

 

A Noticeable Shift

The parent later shared that she was able to stroke a dog, something that previously would not have been possible.

Even more encouragingly, she is now comfortable enough that she has started asking about having a dog of her own.

Quite a shift from when we first spoke!

 

Why This Happens

Fear works in patterns.

When something feels threatening, the mind and body respond quickly, Avoiding the situation can reinforce that response over time.

It’s important to remember that this kind of fear is more common than many people realise, and it can change.

Of course, you still need to be aware around unknown dogs, however, friendly dogs and those just out on a walk become fine.

 

If You’d Like Support

In my work as an anxiety therapist in Ely, I often see how quickly fears can grow — but also how much they can change with the right support.

If your child is struggling with a fear that is affecting day-to-day life, it’s important to know that this can change.

Fears can feel very real, especially for children. But they don’t have to stay that way.

If your child is experiencing anxiety or a specific fear, support is available.

A free initial consultation is there simply to talk things through and see what might help, without pressure or expectation.

To your health and happiness,

Dan Regan

Anxiety Therapy and Hypnotherapy in Ely and Newmarket

 

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