Anxiety and Overthinking: Why the Mind Gets Stuck

Overthinking is one of the most common and frustrating features of anxiety. Your mind goes over the same worries again and again – replaying conversations, imagining worst-case scenarios or searching endlessly for certainty.

You think the worst and feel anxious about what you are imagining and focusing upon. Your mind starts to race and you spiral from one catastrophe to the next. The more anxious you feel, the more you dread and worry about what will happen and how you’ll cope.

Many people describe it as feeling unable to ‘switch off’, even when they know logically that nothing bad is happening right now. It’s like your mind can always find something for you to worry about. It can become so habitual that if you aren’t worrying about something then you worry that you should be.

In my work with anxiety clients in Ely, overthinking is often one of the anxiety symptoms people find most exhausting.

Why anxiety fuels overthinking

Anxiety is closely linked to the brain’s threat system. When the nervous system senses danger – real or imagined – your mind naturally starts scanning for problems and trying to predict outcomes.

From the brain’s point of view, overthinking is an attempt to:

• prevent future threats
• stay prepared and safe
• regain a sense of control

The difficulty is that anxiety treats thoughts as if they are real dangers. The more the mind searches for certainty, the more activated the nervous system becomes – and the harder it is to stop the loop.

Anxiety is all about negative future outcomes. And because you can’t get certainty about things that haven’t happened yet, your mind runs from one negative possibility to the next. You dread what might happen and how you’ll be able to cope with it.

Signs of Overthinking

Signs of anxious overthinking include:

• replaying past conversations and events
• imagining future worst-case outcomes
• constant worry and dreading of situations
• trouble switching off or relaxing
• physical tension
• mental fatigue
• difficulty making decisions

All of these symptoms exacerbate anxiety and a sense of overwhelm. You may struggle to think clearly and focus. It all leads to mental and physical exhaustion

Why reassurance doesn’t always stop the thoughts

Many people try to reason through their overthinking by telling themselves to ‘stop worrying’ or ‘think positively’. While this can help briefly, it often doesn’t last.

That’s because anxious thinking isn’t a deliberate choice – it’s an automatic response driven by the nervous system staying on high alert.

When the body feels tense or unsafe, the mind keeps working overtime.

You feel anxious and imagine the worst. Those imagined worst case scenarios then make you feel even more anxious. You get caught in an ongoing cycle of anxious thoughts and feelings that can go around and around from one thing to the next. No wonder you feel exhausted and start avoiding things.

Calming the system, not fighting the thoughts

You may try to force thoughts away or to distract yourself from them. Or you may give the anxious thoughts time and space inside your head and find yourself feeling worse and worse.

To counter anxiety and overthinking you need to tackle those feelings and the thoughts. You interrupt the cycle by calming your feelings and nervous system and so remove the fuel for those thoughts. You also interrupt the thoughts so that you stop making yourself feel anxious. How you feel directs what you think and imagine. By interrupting and calming the cycle, you start feeling better in yourself.

As physical tension reduces, mental noise quietens as well. It also works the other way too, with a calm mind reducing anxious feelings. People are frequently surprised to find that when the body feels calmer, thoughts naturally become less sticky and easier to let go of.

If you’d like a broader understanding of how anxiety affects both mind and body, you may find this helpful:
👉 Understanding anxiety in Ely

And if overthinking is part of a wider pattern of anxiety you’re experiencing, one-to-one support helps:
👉 Anxiety therapy and hypnotherapy in Ely

With the right support, approach and strategies, you can calm anxious overthinking and start feeling more and more calm, confident and in control.

To your health and happiness,

Dan Regan

Anxiety Hypnotherapy in Ely and Newmarket

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